Usually around the spring time I tend to start going through a bunch of memories in my head. It is my mental version of spring cleaning. You know what to keep, what to toss out and what to look into and study a bit further.
My memories most of the time then to involve people. People that I have kept in contact with, people that I talked to once months ago and popped in my head or people that I had a disconnect with.
In regards to the memories that involved the people that I had a disconnect with I tend to work on first.
A couple of things I think of:
How did I react in the situation?
How did I respond in the situation?
Then I give myself two options on how to answer those questions:
Did I respond like a child?
Or like an adult?
If I responded like a child I rethink the situation. Kinda of like walking backwards. Would I take the same pace if I redid it? Usually I come up with a no.
But then I realize that life sometime comes with erasers, and I am not the kind of person who holds on to grudges.
So in that aspect I reached out to some people who I acted like a child to:
Some reply and some did not. But feel like in doing this I have been able to grow as a person in owning up to my childlike behavior. I did this for my and my clarity, I am not the kind of person who is much of a fighter because I feel like there are too many fighters in this world.
Now I really feel like spring is here!
Until next time!