Valentine’s Day Gift Giving Idea Guide

With Valentine’s Day around the corner I thought of doing a gift giving idea guide! If you are on the fence trying to find something for that special someone. Or even if it is a gift for yourself for the special holiday. Here are some gift ideas to spread the love on that special day:

Sexy Truth of Dare Pick-A- Stick Game from For couples in need of spicing things up or want to add something to their routine. Why not make a game out of it? The sticks in the game range from passion to xxx and is a fun twist to your sex game!

Link to buy is here:

Golden Books Valentine Packs from If you have a long list of valentine’s Day cards you need to mail but want to send something cute. I totally recommend these! These are super cute retro valentines that will definitely be a big hit to whomever you are sending it to. They come in a pack of 15 Valentines with pink and white striped envelopes. Standard shipping time frame is between 7-10 business days.

Link to buy is here:

Curvy Full Figure Woman Body Candle set of 3 by

I recently found out about this wonderful small business last month. I am such a fan of candles but wanted to buy some that were not your average looking candle. What better gift to give on Valentine’s Day like these set of 3 full figure Woman body candles?!! I recommend to order these ASAP because it does take 2-3 weeks for the shipment to arrive.

Link to buy is here:

Loteria Card Pack by : These handmade cards are so unique and they come with their own shimmery envelopes. There are five cards in the pack and you also have the option to buy them separately. Thee cards are blank inside so you can add your own passionate note to your love one. Shipping deadline for her website is February 4th.

Link to buy is here:

Hot Chicken Socks from So I am huge fan of socks and Hot Chicken sandwiches. So when I heard that Gift Horse in Nashville, Tennessee is selling these on their online store. I thought this is a great gift to give to the foodie lover in your life. Make sure you buy one for yourself so you can match!

Link to buy is here:

The Relationship Spread (tarot card reading) from Marilyn is having a special for Valentine’s Day! If you are wondering about that special someone in your life or what more insight in your relationship. Then this is a must do! She is currently running having a sale on “The relationship Spread” read. Normally it is $60.00 but it is currently on sale for $45!

Link to book your read is here:

Made for Each Other Print from Artist Martha Hull (comes in the options of a 8″x10″, 11″x14″, one of a kind brushstroke print, and in card form): Martha Hull makes the cutest art with a macabre twist. This gift idea is perfect for those who enjoy that kind of dark but humorous twist of things in life. Recommend time frame to order your item is be February 1,2021. The artist ships via USPS and will provide a tracking number and arrival time frame by Valentine’s Day is not guarantee due the USPS craziness! So I recommend ordering the sooner the better!

Link to buy is here:

My Therapist Likes you Postcard from Ancillarium Nicole Isaakson ( ) is a writer, editor and artist. She made this cheery Valentine’s Day Postcard and it made from a postcard stock and the front is glossy but you are able to write on the back of it. So if you want to send a quick note to your friends for Valentine’s Day with having to deal with a bulky card. Then this is a must buy! If you order the postcard Nicole does ship your item the next business day via USPS.

Link to buy is here:

“1,2,3,4,5,6”-Pinball Countdown!

One of my favorite channels to watch when I was little (and even today as an grown up) was:

I would watch everything on that channel! Like Julia Child’s cooking show:

To British comedies even though I didn’t understand the some of the tongue and cheek jokes:

One show I was particular fond of was Sesame Street:

One of my favorite segments they would play on that show was “The Pinball Number Count”:

I did not realize until I was much older that the songs were sung by the Pointer Sisters:

The Pinball Number Count made it’s first appearance on the show in 1977. It is a 11 60 second segments that have the same beginning and ending. The number one did not have it’s own segment even though the words in the song they are singing numbers ranging from 1 to 12. The pinballs always drops in the hole of the pinball game except for number 7.

The only difference between the segments is the number and that number’s theme.

Here is the breakdown of the segments:

Number 1: No segment

Number 2: ” A Day at the Carnival”: the ball weaves through an different rides you would find at an amusement park. Including going out of a huge clown’s mouth:

Number 3: Circus Capers: The pinball goes around a bunch of circus oriented items. Such as a bunch of clowns, a ape who juggles and a pink elephant:

Number 4: “Fore!”: The pinball goes through a mini golf theme area.

Number 5: “The Only Way to Travel”: The pinball goes through various modes of transportation. Like a bicycle, an airplane and a tugboat.

Number 6: “Down on the Farm”: The pinball goes to the farm and maneuvers it’s way through a barn, and gets kick by donkey.

Number 7: “Sightseeing A: World Tour”- the pinball takes a journey to the world’s most famous landmarks. Such as the Sphinx, the pyramids, and Taj Mahal:

Number 8: “Forest Follies”: The pinball goes through the woods and meets a bear on a unicycle, a kangaroo and a racoon.

Number 9: “Play Ball!”: The pinball goes to a baseball game and meets some baseball players, runs over a person selling hot dogs and gets drop into the hole by a sports loving dog.

Number 10: “Medieval Times”- the pinball goes back in time to a where knights and jesters are a norm.

Number 11: “Wild Things in the Jungle.” The pinball goes to the jungle see an elephant, a lion and a big gorilla the throws the pinball into it’s hole:

Number 12: “Sightseeing B: USA”: On the pinball finally journey. It takes a trip to the USA and pasts through important landmarks. Such as Mount Rushmore, The Statue of Liberty and the Golden Gate Bridge.

For some reason I was a fan of number 6,8 and 12. But it didn’t mean I didn’t like the other segments as much but I remember those were the most shown when I was watching Sesame Street at the time. I remember this was a good way for my to learn my numbers because of the catchy tune that went with it. I still hum it time to time randomly. What number segment was your favorite out of the 12?

Comment below!

Until Next time!!

Cathy the comic strip: My 3rd grade bestie

When I was in the 3rd grade my daily go to reads involved a lot of comic strips reading. I looked forward in getting the Washington Post delivered to my house so I can feel like a sophisticated 30 year old in an 12 year old body. I would be the first person every morning in my house to grab the Style section and open it up to the back of that section just to look at the comics. One of my favorite ones to read was the Cathy comics. She literally became my best friend during that time because I felt like I could relate to her.

Not that I necessarily understood the tongue and cheek humor of Cathy. But I did admire the fact that this particular comic strip revolved around a woman and not a animal, or floating head or a guy with a horn helmet.

The Cathy comic strip was made by Cathy Guisewite and it was a reflection of her life while she was single. Her struggles in the comic strip was so relatable especially to me now re reading some of the comic strips. Things just was work, love, family and just basic living your life. Her comic strip has a humorous and refine way to showcase it. The comic strip ran from 1976-2010.

Cathy Guisewite

Some of my favorite Cathy comic strips’ involved a super cute dog named Electra. Who is a rescue dog from a shelter:

Her boyfriend Irving. Who later turn husband on February 5, 2005:

Cathy’s Mother Anne. Who always had marriage on her mind. Especially when it came to her daughter and when she was finally going to get married:

As a child reading the Cathy strips it left an impression on mind. Particularly when I got older and I started reading some of the strips over again. That Cathy with all of her insecurities was never ashamed of admitting she had them. Which made me feel better about myself because we all have insecurities about ourselves. If you treat them head on and say them out in the open they don’t feel as scary anymore.

For those on social media. Cathy Guisewite does have an instagram and the information for that is below:


Until Next time!!!

a random update:

Hello everyone! Now that the holiday season is over I will be updating the blog soon. But I just like to write my yearly random updates. I have made a new list of interesting topics to write about so keep an eye out for that. I am planning to do another giveaway as soon as my @lady.cult feed hits 61K followers.

Personally I have not put away my Christmas decorations because it took me longer than last year to put everything up. Also at this rate putting a deadline on anything does not really matter to me at the moment:

The blog posts will be spread out more than usual this year. I am taking some classes for the next two months and I am not in the mood to over work myself. I love to write and I don’t want my writing to feel like a chore. Rather it should be viewed as an enjoyment and exciting. I will post more interviews to highlight other amazing people because I am all about learning about others!

Just wanted to check in with everyone! How is everyone doing so far?

Until next time!!


Artist’s Spotlight: @bigfunstore

Hello everyone and welcome to my first interview of 2021. I was so fortune to interview artist : @bigfunstore !

  1. Tell me a little about yourself:

” Hey Clarissa, thank you for asking me to do this! I’m Beth.

I spent most of my adult life living in Brooklyn, (with brief detours to Hudson, NY & Philadelphia) and  recently am living back in New Jersey, my home state. Diners, Taylor Ham & Gabagool are just too hard to resist. I’m married to a bread baker, have a cat named Pretzels and had a baby eight months ago. She is not named after a food. There was however a brief fantasy that “Sprinkles” could be her middle name. When I first moved to NYC I pursued painting while working part time jobs, one at a now defunct restaurant by NYU that specialized in food nostalgia via overpriced peanut butter sandwiches, and one of the first specialty coffee shops in Williamsburg. That’s where I hung a felt fake food show when I first began sculpting food before Big Fun had a name. It occurred to me while answering your questions that the part time jobs I have had my entire life have almost all been with food. Big Fun is my fake food passion project that I started about 10 years ago. I studied painting at Boston University and sculpture was ironically my least favorite medium, but when I started to make work again from my apartment, after giving up a proper art studio, I was drawn to paper pulp/clay as mediums I could work with in tight quarters. I also found that the texture of the paper pulp gave itself over to natural food textures in a terrific way. I have always been one to overdose on nostalgia myself, so I started to make sculptures of food that related to food memories in my life. Including a mini antipasti plate, which is something we make every Thanksgiving in my house.

Fake Antipasti

My artful arrangements of the real meat have become family legend.

Real Antipasti

I also began to incorporate the food nostalgia of America into my work. The vintage recipes and food photography of Betty Crocker, Wilton and McCall’s are hauntingly beautiful and strange to me. They make me long for a time I wasn’t alive for. When I’m not working on Big Fun. My sister Amy, and I own Greenwich Letterpress, a stationery store in NYC’s West Village, which we started back in 2005. 

We also celebrate nostalgia and pop culture there too, but not always with food. Although I have started to let my love of food imagery sneak in as of late ;)”

2. What made you choose fake food as an art form?

” I have always been drawn to food, period, and artists that referenced food, like Oldenburg & Thiebaud. As early as college in 98′, I would buy Hostess cupcakes and Twinkies etc…and set up still life’s to paint. To this day there is a snack cake painting from 00′ that hangs in Greenwich Letterpress, as well as a felt turkey and black and white cookie, both from the coffee shop show circa 05′. Food moments in pop culture were always important too. I was obsessed with Cathy Mitchell food gadget infomercials growing up, and I loved watching food on TV being made.

Cathy Mitchell

I saw a program, I think on HBO, as a kid that showed you how prop artists prepared food for commercials and television shows. It always stuck with me and I couldn’t believe that could be a career. Food has just always made an impact. When I worked in an ice cream shop on break from college one Summer, I would just take the scoop for the rainbow sprinkles and fill it up and pour it back into the bowl in a daze. The top TV food moments I think about a lot: The sheet cake that the “Alice” character becomes in Tom Petty’s “Don’t Come Around Here No More” video.

Tom Petty’s Don’t Come Around Here No More video

 The meal that Audrey in European Vacation gorges herself on in her dream sequence. The pastries that Bill Murray shoves into his mouth in Groundhog Day. The giant pancakes John Candy makes in Uncle Buck. I really can’t imagine a better subject for art making than food, it always comes back to food.”

3. What was the first art piece you created?

” The felt food art was the first real Big Fun work I made, without a plan or purpose. I was just having fun. The very first thing I made was a felt jar of rainbow sprinkles.

I hand punched the felt with a paper punch and my hand was bruised by the time I finished. The first work I made that is closer to what I make now was a paper pulp steak. It was based on a vintage plaster butcher display I saw at a flea market, and a paper pulp cured ham that I made to hang from my ceiling, to feel as if you walked into an Italian market. I learned a lot from those pieces, the steak was hollow underneath and the sides caved in, which was a valuable lesson. The ham came out better, I sculpted around a solid armature. I still have both in my house today, as well as the felt sprinkles.” 

4. What is the weirdest or most complex thing you ever created in terms of your art?

“I decided that I wanted to start replicating the actual vintage food from those old Americana recipe cards and books. 

The most complicated piece I made was a carousel cake based on McCall’s Jelly Bean Circus Cake from the Great American Recipe Cards. It was a full form cake, with candy and animal cracker details.

I’m really excited about how it turned out, and now that I have a daughter, I hope she likes it enough to display it in her room when’s she’s older. “

Beth and her baby 🙂

5.Do you have any exciting news or events that you would like to share?

” I have slowly begun to upload and sell off my sculptures from throughout the years on my webstore: BigFunFood. (People can always message me on Instagram as well if they see something that isn’t on the site.) It’s an ongoing work in progress, but things will continue to pop up and be available as time goes on. The work is all so personal to me, so parting with it has been hard. 

Berry Sculpture

They are also all one of a kind pieces so I like that they just float out in the world waiting for the right person to scoop them up. I realize that it’s not meant for everyone.  I have also started to bring my love of vintage cookbook imagery into some new textile work as well as some new sculptures that will be coming soon. I am always trying to find new ways to make Big Fun more accessible to more people by making more of one piece, but I hate making the same thing twice so let’s not hold our breath. ;)”

If you like to learn more about Beth. Here is her following contact information:

Instagram: @bigfunstore




Greenwich Letterpress

Thank you Beth for the interview!!!

Until next time.